Friday, August 9, 2013

Celebrating Sandhya's 22nd Birthday

EP-519-Celebrating Sandhya's 22nd Birthday
I loved it how each of them smell the flowers in the bouquet.

I felt bad that Sandhya again ended up making Sooraj loose to his worries, his precious worry being anything that concerns her. Well Sooraj himself led Sandhya to play with him with his impatient demand to clean the bed. LOL

He wants her to be surprised with his gifts. 
He wants to see the wonderment in her face and relish the experience.
He wonders what kind of an expression or reaction she would give.
He just wants her to go and remove the bed quilt.
He is killing his time filing his nails.LOL

Never did He think Sandhya would be so eager to hear him wish her Birthday greetings. 
Instead of her being surprised, He finds himself surprised by her attention seeking acts.
She bangs the door, coughs a bit, plays with her bangles.
Never did he think Sandhya would be disappointed with him so much.
And yet he continued with his tease.
She used the last staw. Her wet hair. She is surprised that he remains unaffected.
He is moved but resolved to show himself unaffected by her overtures to grab his attention.
She talks about weather and He dismisses as nothing extraordinary and instead focus on getting ready for competition.
Lo ! He thinks He hurt her by talking about competition, but She is not even thinking about competition. All she is caring about him wishing her on her B'Day.

He wants his wish of seeing her face full of surprise and wonderment looking at his B'day gifts for her. Period.
She wants him to wish her Birthday. Period.
He is getting impatient with her non-interest towards what's on the bed. His panic starts showing up
She has resigned herself thinking he may have really forgotten about it.

She sees the gifts.
He misses the sight when she discovers there are gifts for her on the bed.
She is happy that he remembered all right. She is surprised about the gift and the tease. 
She is in full control not to display too much excitement.
She sends him away from the room. 
She tricks him with her hiccups and tables are turned on him.
She forms a plan to tease her husband instead. Ever heard of a B'day Baby planning tease party for others ? 
She is just happy with the fact that he remembers her B'day. And if he has indulged in teasing her, why not take the tease further. That is Sandhya.

And He comes back to watch the amazement on his wife's face.
Lo its not there.
And even the gifts are gone.
He panics.
That is Sooraj. Totally gullible before Sandhya. LOL


Come on Sooraj! Show your power. The girl just wants to hear you wish her on her day. Tease her if you can now. LOL

Purani Soch or Dakiyanoos Soch !!!

EP-515 Summary-Sandhya's sacrifice is her duty towards RP
Bhabho gets to know that Chavi lied about Sandhya helping her to cheat in the exam. Previously she also had got to know that Emily was the reason why Sooraj's shop got ravaged by rats. Bhabho has to share this information with Babasa about how Sandhya covered both Chavi and Emily and caused her pots to be broken. Instead of feeling happy about getting a DIL who takes care of family members as her own, instead of teaching Chavi and Emily to walk on the side of truth, Bhabho tells Babasa that she is happy that Sandhya sacrificed her dream and let the two pots broken and that she wants Sandhya to continue living for Rathi House in this manner of the sacrificial cow.

The Episode showed another lowest point for Bhabho post her liquor-chocolate feeding to Sandhya to prevent her from writing the exam next day.
Bhabho's Purani Soch given so much Screen time...just so that Nayi Soch is again established.
But it  Purani and Nayi soch dilemma for Bhabho to disallow Sandhya pursue her IPS dream ???? What about the truth that she has to uphold for her daughter, Sons and Daughter-in-laws. Which Purani Soch says that one has to support and sacrifice for protecting Lies, Scams and Dishonesty ?

Edicts as old as Ramayan...all that PURANI SOCH is full of truth and glorious feats. Does that mean 

Bhabho belongs to Alien Planet where even she is not known to Ramayan ?
What about Queen Kaikeyi being a warrior Princess, adept at battlefield with her prowess. Wasn;t she her husband's charioteer ??!!!

Okay for reasons known, Bhabho will say its not a good example.

Then what about Sita...who had the equal Skill like Rama in her ability to lift the Shiv Dhanush ?

Oh! Bhabho might again tell me Sita sacrificed herself for her husband. So not a good example.

Fine SD says...what about Goddess Lakshmi who has to come to earth to air Lord Vishnu to end Demon Ravana.

Bhabho will say...again she is doing for her husband.

SD will now try to take a different path.  Bhabho what about...Goddess Durga...have you forgotten her. She is Jagadjanini. How can you not see her. How can you forget that.

Bhabho says...Look you forget there. I have always asked for my home...I need a Lakshmi and not a Durga or Saraswati.

SD is flummoxed...And says YOU Bhabho...what a Dakiyanoosi Soch is yours.  If it was a Purani Soch that you pretend to show off there, you would have known that Saraswati, Lakshmi and Durga are three forms of woman. You cannot pray them in isolation. And you forget that above everything those Goddesses have always acted for the good of the uphold truth and defeat EVIL.

Then how come Bhabho you cannot see that
  • You have germinated the seed of lie in Chavi, your daughter. Look at how many times your daughter took your name that it is because of you she does all that. May be she is truly your chavi (image) of what you actually are.
  • You have planted the seed of Baby Swapping Idea in Meena, your was you who taught her that the eldest born if he is son, then only it is considered lucky. So Meena upheld what you wanted...whatever the means Meena may have chosen, she was successful in choosing what you wanted.
  • And your love for Momily...Hook or Crook they need to win. This is exactly what you want. Hook or Crook you want Sandhya to fail in her aspirations.
@STAR TV @ DABH Creatives

Nayee Soch ke chakkar mein...please don't show DAKIYANOOS  (Prudish and Priggish) Soch. Please instead show a genuine Purani Soch so that we can understand what Naya the characters are doing!!!

My complaint with STAR TV and DABH team is that they are over-doing Bhabho's Self-righteous thinking. She gets to have max airtime in the drama.

In the name of standing antagonistic to Sandhya and Sooraj for their Nayee Soch, they are staking simple plain old truths of maintenance within family.

Speaking Lies is not a tradition that Bhabho can uphold. How can she not ask Sandhya for shielding those who speak lies ? Where is her reprimand in that case. She neither teaches her daughter to speak truth nor she gives liberty to her DIL to teach her daughter to speak truth.

So is the case with each SCAM revealed in the story. Which tradition in India says that scammer should be shielded.

They are clearly not showing TRADITIONAL OPPOSITION to NEW THINKING by repeated plotlines of LIES and SCAMS.

As regards to Purani Soch versus Nayee Soch, the track of Fake Baba, Ankur-Ankita' Baby's **ceremony and Meena's Baby Swapping are the only three cases in that direction.
The only characters from Purani Soch who are shown moving towards Nayee Soch are Babasa and Sooraj. Babasa has coined a Sravan Kumar DIL in today's episode and Sooraj in Satyavaan and Savitri Story...showed what else Savitri was capable of by extending his skit in the show.  They are two persons who are supporting Sandhya from the days of Throw Trash in Dustbins.

But clearly not about upholding PURAANI SOCH or Traditions in which she grew up.  While the HYPOCRISY angle that you have presented which explains the Bhabho's prudishness in becoming Self-righteous in her thinking, and that she has turned Purani Soch into self-benefitting Self-Righteous thought, how about her simple motherly thoughts for Traditional reasons that she needs to correct her wayword sons and daughters.  Who speaks lies like that all the time.

To say that lying is a common problem, stealing is a common problem, swindling people is age old problem...and hence a Puraani Soch...I cannot make heads and Tails of it.

If STAR's Vision is Rishte Wohi Soch Nayi, then only two characters are upholding it.
Babasa and Sooraj...Primarily Sooraj as he approaches Sandhy who is the Nayee Soch maintaining all the Traditions of all the Rishte.

What about rest of characters ?
All these characters fine keep testing Sandhya...then that means in each fight with Sandhya, Sooraj and Babasa should be supporting Sandhya. Yes they support her, but where is that CHANGE PROCESS of SOORAJ TRICKLING DOWN on HIS SIBLINGS ??????  When people change, they are able to tell others why Change is better.  SO in that sense, Sooraj should have started teaching his Sibs about good things he finds about Nayee Soch.
In the name of Nayee Soch and Wohi Rishte...the story just keeps ridiculing Nayee Soch and never ever corrects the so called SELF-RIGHTEOUS People of the Show. Never.

And I am not even asking for Punishment. I want at least one by one people changing with Bhabho to be the last one to change. She is a hypocrit and so she need not even change...she would rather be shamed and boxed(read snubbed) to accept change.  All I care is for a start, please have Vikram, Chavi and Mohit start changing one by one in bits and pieces. Please show the story where they land in hardships by their own self-righteous ignorant thinking and they weepingly tell Bhabho that it is because of her thinking today they have lost.

When is that gonna happen.
Sometimes I just remain confused what I am watching ?

A girl's story who want's to be an IPS Officer ?
A husband's story who wants to see his Wife become an IPS Officer ?
Its a story of Nayee Soch Rishta Wohi ?
or its just Timepass of throwing CRAP at our face just to watch Lies, Scams and Hypocrisy having a GAY Time with Free Pass to STAR WORLD.

The changing face of India.

Many think that India is still shacked in traditional thinking.
But contrary to what TV shows, I have seen that at grass root level from the past two decades, because of lot women empowerment programmes implemented at State District Level, woman actually grab hold of employment positions in Government with the help of Women's reservation Quota.

In the end much of the change is related to Betterment of Life for economic reasons. I have seen woman working in Police Stations as Constables, Clerks, seen woman working in Courts as Admin Staff...wearing various uniforms. This I am talking about two districts Ranga Reddy and Warangal of AP. That is south. Teachers...we have commonly seen in villages.   And I am not even touching METRO Cities. I am talking only about Towns of those Districts.  And I am not talking about HIGH Bureaucratic Positions...I am talking Class D Staff.

So ...when women know that for economic reasons, woman have to work...and its been a clearly what is Bhabho opposing ????? If Bhabho belongs to a RICH Class where she and her Beendnis have to LIVE PURDAH System...with that Stupid Pallo on the head...WHEN Sandhya changed total Ghoonghat of face covering in Maasa's Track of Feb I to see that one day Bhabho will agree for NO Pallo on her Beendni's heads ?????  Is that what I should have patience to watch for ????  Whatever Bhabho talks of her Rathi Pariwaar and about her IDEAL BEENDNI Qualities, it is UTTERLY RIDICULOUS.

But this I have been feeling and I am a liberated person. But for the millions like Bhabho of India who are watching this SOAP, for whom WHO IS THE SPOKESPERSON WHO TELLS THEM THAT BHABHO IS WRONG ?????? How are they to learn that they need to CHANGE.
The DABH Soap Writing is sometimes a MESS with failing to stand on the SIDE of ETHICALLY CORRECT Issues.

People should watch Udaan of Doordarshan. Story of Kalyani Singh IPS. That was rise of Nayee Soch over Purani Soch.

Patience is a Virtue...but only in the Case of SurYA. Everything else about the Story gives us a LOATHESOME Feeling.

I sure was disappointed today. I never though Bhabho would be such a FLAT Character with NIL Growth. And it would not have been my problem had I the confidence that Soooraj or Sandhya or Babasa had corrected the Wrongs.



For Gods Sake!!!! Who is taking care of Chavi if she was made a Target today. Its not that she is going to get her Sooraj Bhaiyya and Sandhya Bhabhi everywhere where she goes. 
HOW ABOUT EMPOWERING CHAVI...the FEMALE here in the name of female power or female emancipation. 

My response to that debate.
>>>>speaking about lies...How did you conclude that traditionalism stands for morality ..

The same HYPOCRITIC SOCIETY I AM PART OF. Otherwise where's the need for me to be Patriotic towards my country. Where's the need for my country's soldiers of army, navy, air force or BSF to be honest and protecting our nation. Where's the need for me to believe that they are gonna keep a watch while we sleep. Where's the need for me to believe the daily life will go on smoothly with transportation working on via the Railway, the Buses, everyone going to offices, children going to school everyday with those teachers, drivers, workmen presenting themselves everyday to work on all fronts.  

I see peace around me and I go on my work everyday. Its this belief that tells me that I need to be ethical and moralistic. This is the tradition I grew up in. My parents and the school texts taught me not to lie, not to cheat. This is my tradition and no one can deny the truth for me that it is not.  The way I have been taught and asked to behave by my elders, be it parents, teachers, neighbours, relatives or society law and order...that where my tradition stems from.

I checked the meaning for tradition to see if I got it wrongly...and I see it is the same.

  • The passing down of elements of a culture from generation to generation, especially by oral communication.
    1. A mode of thought or behavior followed by a people continuously from generation to generation; a custom or usage.
    2. A set of such customs and usages viewed as a coherent body of precedents influencing the present: followed family tradition in dress and manners. See synonyms at heritage.
  • A body of unwritten religious precepts.
  • A time-honored practice or set of such practices.
  • Law. Transfer of property to another.

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    So what I see in RP frequently in the name of passing on customs and thoughts to NEXT generation by Bhabho:
    • Having Dinner together with Beendnis serving the Men - Not anyting new. I saw variations of that.
    • Making Papads, Vadiyaan, Pickles and other eatables - pretty much same the way I grew up
    • Aangan Drama - Pretty much the same as I grew up...Class taking and resolution of day to day affairs. It was a necessary discussion per my mom and grandmothers explanations.
    • Mothers keeping a watch on everyone, keeping a tab on expense - same here
    • Dressing to the occassion, regular dressing...all understandable
    • Safekeeping of Jewellery at one place...again understandable...and have seen it
    • Household Chores distributed and work going on throughout the day - have seen it 
    • Festivities, Competitions with Daisa's Household - agreeable - have seen it happening that way ...with my Mama adament on being the one to be with biggest Batkamma etc etc..

    Those were all good traditions.

    And we have seen these bad traditions too...

    • Do not respect your women. They can be beaten. If couple is caught, just beat up the woman, the DIL and not the son who also was responsible in the lying, cheating equally
    • Girls are lower than Men. Girl if she happens to be first born, she will be unlucky for the house
    • Women slapping False charge on MIL under Sec 498 
    • Lieing, Cheating can be overlooked if they are your family members. 
    • Daughter in Laws instead have to protect such liers and scammers.
    • We can scam our own brother and mother for Money by setting the godown on fire.
    • We can openly lie about passing in exams
    • We can have lie based marriage
    • We can have out of wedlock pregnancy and where the boy also jilts the girl
    • We can also swap babies at random so that we can make MIL happy and get a gold ornament set for giving a male child.
    • We can keep quiet for causing damage to a shop.
    • We can burn our fingers by losing money in fraudulent Chit Fund scams
    • We can also start bribing to get privy information to win a competition or exam answer paper.

    In all of these bad traditions...the one thing...Lie based marriage...only this thing was punished as culprit was DIL. And also for the scams and case slapping on Bhabho, Meena was punished because she was DIL.
    No Uma,  I don't mind the debate.

    You keep showing me what Bhabho thinks and that it is right from her IDEALOGICAL POINT, but I feel we have so many other common daily grind examples who can quash her down with their ideological point. 

    All it takes is NOT to LISTEN to CRAP propagated by Women like Bhabho.
    Yes, those woman who raise voices against people like Bhabho, get gang raped or men who raise their voices will get Khaap judgements and get killed. But the point of such sick state of mind  with terror controlling people's minds is a consequence of people themselves remaining MUTE for long. People allowed others to oppress them, to suppress their minds.

    The cases pf Bhabhos and Khaaps are not the same in quantity as much as we have good examples in our country. We can learn positivity from them too.

    If there was not an ounce in the beliefs that my country of its traditions does have some inherent good, I would soon think our country to become like Somalia...with factions fighting over each other for stupid reasons.

    INSPITE of all this debate, like Arvind Kejriwal exposing all scams of the Government, I still have only one concern left that ails me so bad.

    Who was going to take away the deep seated fear in Chavi's mind about the punishment from Bhabho ?  Who is going to say Chavi...Don't be scared...its not wrong that you accidentally stepped on vadiyaan, that is okay if you find economics tough but you need to study and not be on phone or doing nails...that is this really a fear you are projecting or also your laziness and escapism from work that you are trying to cover up.

    For me the problem remained there itself.

    IN reality, my country's Ruling Janta is corrupt and no one can punish them.
    In Fiction at least, can I have some respite with people being reprimanded for their wrong ?!!!!

    That is my need.  This is Fiction. This is based on some reality. And it needs to have Poetic Justice served on the platter.

    Patience from 2 years for someone to say ...Chavi, Mohit do not lie. Do not throw Sandhya under the bus. Vikram...its not good to cheat your own brother and mother.

    Politicians can go scot free.

    But seeing these people go scot free on TV is just too much. Keeps reminding me those old time Black and white movie melodramas of family Injustices, but it used to be just 2 and a half hour story.

    At least in Rival Channel, in like soap, they show bad traditions being canvassed to be put an end to bad practice. Here...evil just keeps brewing and brewing. Its not healthy.

    Sandhya's ability to remain calm and strong under duress

    This trait of Sandhya's character discussion follows as a response to Shailesh_Rathi who penned her sum-up on Sandhya appreciating her empathetic nature towards people.

    Originally posted by Shailesh_Rathi
    I know it's been so long since have been here. I have meaning to share this for quite some time now. Even though the OTT ness of some of dabh characters has been really annoying; I am finding myself liking and empathizing with Sandy's character more and more. Who hasn't seen variations of such crazy people. Definitely true for me in my workplace, you know the liars and troublemakers, etc...and I can admire much more how much it must be costing her to stay silent, maintain her own inner peace and still calmly go about her own business...taking the long, tough  road,  

    It is so tough to listen to the day to day pettiness without wanting to scream back at them and yet when the axe finally falls, you find that the silent way was the stronger way in the long run. 

    p.s. Now CVs that still doesn't mean you can treat sandy as a cant take dabhily for granted. But I like how they are showing that sometimes silence can be a sign of inner strength and brings a person greater respect in the long run. 

    Responded by myself
    You are so so so right.  Each and every line.
    This is how I made peace with DABH story.

    Originally posted by Shailesh_Rathi
    And especially the part where someone in here mentioned that Sandhya is stronger than Emily because she doesnt surrender her individuality so easily. People may act antagonist towards her and yet she is the first one they would trust during adverse circumstances.  

    Responded by myself
    yes. absolutely true. Even Bhabho keeps remembering Sandhya in those adverse the case when Emily showed off as IT Officer.  Well Bhabho also keeps remembering Sooraj like in case of Dilip and his mother when they come to enquire about Chavi...but point is Sandhya now has some place in Bhabho's mind that she trusts Sandhya for difficult times.

    Like...Making sure that Sandhya will take care of Sooraj for WTC competition
    Like...Asking Sandhya to prevent Sooraj from sellling his shop
    Like...Trusting Sandhya regarding matters of gyno reports for Meena
    Like...Trusting Sandhya to get Chavi pass in her supplementary exam
    Like ...Trusting Sandhya to find out who was responsible for Sooraj's shop loss
    Like...seeing and also getting angry as to how Sandhya can lose phone number of Chaturi's parents...when Chaturi was missing
    Like...Asking Sandhya to take care of Emily -Mohit marriage including getting permission from Maasa...regardless of her one-side wish for Sandhya to fail, her good side wanted Sandhya to succeed because it was also a matter of her morals and ethics she needed to uphold for RP. Her Son's mistake was her's too...and so she turns selfishly to Sandhya to rescue her...I laughed at her desperation at that point...because Bhabho seemed no different from Mohit and Chavi...She did the same as her kids...USE and THROW of SANDHYA.

    But that's what Sandhya is...She is remembered only when people are in difficulty.
    That's why I like her choosing her profession to be IPS. Sandhya is full of that...she is trusted for taking care of mess and dirt and she does it. Look at Police Force...its not even a paying job with no protection for themselves. Indian Gov is pathetic in that sense.

    Sunday, July 28, 2013

    The Lost Sandhya. Will she ever find her way ?

    The Lost Sandhya. Will she ever find her way ? 
    This was my reaction in Nov 2011 and for which now I have the answer.

    15th Nov 2011
    I wouldn't mind at all if Bhabho slaps her one or two times.
    She has lot of attitude and that too idiotic one, The girl is behaving as if she never  ever lived in practical world. seems was too busy living in her dream world. so much that she forgot to see and know her brother and what kind of sibling he was. her brother is as much a stranger as her husband whom she married just now. Pathetic girl!!! she is exacerbating everyone's temper. Now her excuse that her brother cheated her, i feel that she deserves it in every manner.

    28th July 2013
    At that time in Nov 2011, I meant slaps for reality-checks to get her out of denial and shock phase. daylily121 wrote her observation and I observed that Sandhya has been too lost in her dream to have a grip on reality.
    In retrospect, today, how true was that observation. Sandhya was too lost in her dream and not only that it was her life. She really needed a Sooraj to snap out of her dream phase and enter reality phase and after that Sooraj showed her way to go for her dreams with open eyes, weighing her dream on the scale of perceptions of value it has in others eyes.  There was a time, because of her closed eyes, even her blood-kin brother could not let her realize her dream. Now today, Sandhya has reassessed her dream, the value it holds, the priority it takes in her life, everything is changed from the point it was then in Nov 2011. It is not even as important as the people she needs to take care of.

    An excerpt from my poem
    SurYa in Free Verse

    She is lost in her dream.
    She has lost her parents.
    She feels lost in labirynths of darkness around her.
    She sees light in him.
    She hold on to his guidance.
    She finds her dream back.

    She is relieved of her weight of her dream on her soul as he shares it with her to fulfill them.
    He is relieved of his need to burn himself to glory as she shares his responsibility with him.
    She mesmerizes him with her dedication with her steadfast efforts.
    He razzles her with his determination to swim against rough tides.
    All they can feel is happiness for themselves and proud of each other for being the other's deserving half.

    His desire is that she be recognized for what she deserves.
    Her desire is that she be appreciated for what she strives so hard for.
    His wish is that he helps her achieve her parents dream for her.
    Her wish is that she never let her parents and her husband's dignity be tarnished and aspirations be wasted.

    Sooraj is the reason Sandhya happens.
    Without Sun there is no Sunset.
    Without Sunset there is no Night.
    Without Night there is no Dream to see.
    Dreams sometimes are meant to be realized.
    Dreams have to be realized in Daylight.
    Daylight cannot happen without Sun.
    Sun let others take his glory in the night that he blesses us with.
    Sooraj beckons Sandhya to take charge until sunrise again.

    Saturday, July 27, 2013

    SurYa in Free Verse

    He is hopelessly gaga over her.
    He is hopelessly smitten by her beauty.
    He is hopelessly jealous when someone else takes precedence over him in her heart.
    He is hopelessly inconsolable at the thought that she is unhappy with him.
    And all she does is to tease him.

    He comes alive in his intensely romantic mood.
    She goes dead in freezing scare.
    He smiles confidently at her as he encompasses her with his presence around her.
    She is embarassingly quiet and shy as she allows him to encapsule her.

    He can scorch her with his intensity of his love for her.
    She cannot allow herself to be scorched as it hurts her.
    He understands her.
    He adores her.
    He wants to take care of her every need.
    She admires the tenacity of his love for her.
    She enjoys his attention on her.
    She basks in its glory of sunshine.

    She dazzles him with her calmness.
    She amazes him with her indifference.
    She stupefies him with her brilliance.
    She shames him with her perseverance.
    She rapts him with her glorious feats.
    All he can feel is happiness for himself and proud of her being his wife.

    He is the provider, the nurturer to dependents on him who rise to walk in the glory of his sunshine.
    He is Sooraj.
    His challenge is that he cannot disappoint those who trust him for his winning glory.
    Because he is Sooraj.
    He is happy if people around him are happy.

    She provides rest to those who return from work, from care, from glory; in the balm of her sunshade.
    She is Sandhya.
    Her opportunity is that she cannot disappoint those who trust her to find their winning glory.
    Because she is Sandhya.
    She is honored if people repose trust in her.

    His weakness is his love for his loved ones.
    He cannot live without them and yet keeps himself in distance watching them chirping around him.
    Her strength is her love for her loved ones.
    She lives for them in an all pervading quiet absorption with serenity around her.

    She is lost in her dream.
    She has lost her parents.
    She feels lost in labirynths of darkness around her.
    She sees light in him.
    She hold on to his guidance.
    She finds her dream back.

    She is relieved of her weight of her dream on her soul as he shares it with her to fulfill them.
    He is relieved of his need to burn himself to glory as she shares his responsibility with him.
    She mesmerizes him with her dedication with her steadfast efforts.
    He razzles her with his determination to swim against rough tides.
    All they can feel is happiness for themselves and proud of each other for being the other's deserving half.

    His desire is that she be recognized for what she deserves.
    Her desire is that she be appreciated for what she strives so hard for.
    His wish is that he helps her achieve her parents dream for her.
    Her wish is that she never let her parents and her husband's dignity be tarnished and aspirations be wasted.

    She buttons his shirts.
    She irons his shirts.
    She combs his hair.
    He ties her blouse strings.
    He serves her coffee
    He makes her cakes
    They make tea together.
    They cook Dal Baati Choorma together.
    They make Puppets together.
    He has learned not to scorch her with his love.
    She has warmed up to his burning touch.
    And we have seen her appeasing him when he is upset with her negligence of him.
    They have broken all records of romancing under married courtship period.
    Yet there is no end to their romance.
    They can start of anywhere and romance in almost every situation.
    Be it the Courtyard
    Be it the Storeroom
    Be it on the Scooter or the Bicycle.

    Sooraj is the reason Sandhya happens.
    Without Sun there is no Sunset.
    Without Sunset there is no Night.
    Without Night there is no Dream to see.
    Dreams sometimes are meant to be realized.
    Dreams have to be realized in Daylight.
    Daylight cannot happen without Sun.
    Sun let others take his glory in the night that he blesses us with.
    Sooraj beckons Sandhya to take charge until sunrise again.

    Alas I am missing an Usha, a Prabhat here spreading their light and illumination around.
    And may be we can hope to see them, if you can understand by what I mean !!!!

    Wednesday, July 24, 2013

    EP-506-22nd July 2013 - What's with Emily and the Fear Clunk?

    Okay Emily and Mohit's relationship...this is going to be ranty and wickedness in restraint...

    Did they even love each other? Okay if not;do they even know each other ? Okay if not, do they even understand people around them ?

    Mohit keeps threatening Emily that he is going to leave her, ditch her, abandon her etc.
    And Emily starts crying buckets out of fear. I worry about the child in her womb, how convoluted in fear it might be grow into.

    Come on Emily !!! Are you so dumb to even fall into his words?  If Mohit had that much courage to do something, he would not even have got married to you in the 1st place.  He had to give in to his family demands that he remain married to you. You can see it from your eyes every day since the pregnancy news was out.  So what are you even afraid of ????

    How come you being in the able position of the Blackmailer, allow yourself to get blackmailed by Mohit ?

    Do I have to take the CLUNK in Emily and Mohit's relationship as not well thought execution ?  For that matter, even Chavi and Dilip's pairing is much better. Chavi is good looking and he is looking for that kind of done.

    Seems Emily and Mohit's relationship is created just like Sudha's need to remain in the story. Sudha always becomes the prop for Meena's scheming selfish brain. Meena wants to get her sister Sudha married off with good match...but she keeps terribly failing.  And then there is that Daisa...even she keeps getting outsmarted by Rathi Parivaar.

    The selective choice of loser and gainer labelling is just too obvious in DABH.  Is it really how the common milieu get themselves swayed in fear, greed just to the firefly getting attracted to light and dying ?!!

    I mean there should be some reason for 
    1. Dumbness of Emily in believing that Mohit has guts to throw her out. On what basis my dear...just ask him that question.
    2. Insecurity of Bhabho and constant scrutiny she keeps on Sandhya and Sooraj...She is just looking for one big failure from them as she needs to be self-righteous.
    3. Meena and her greed - she gets to eat, dress, so she wants more. So add her sister into it.  Poor girl, used to be a law student, became a girl to entice men and now becoming assistant in conning again...Does the law student even have any brain of her own ?

    How come all who get in touch with Rathi Parivaar start losing brain ?!!!!! except SurYa, Babasa, Chaturi and Chotu...

    Hey Mhara Ramji !! Buddhi do inko. Sadbuddhi de do.

    Emily by the end of the competition, if she is able to show her middle finger to Mohit and his empty threats, then I would consider, her purpose of participating in the Quiz was to find her confidence back.   

    Today the copious tears she let fall at the end of being declared as the 8th contestant to remain in competition, looked so childish if she just had the large heart to see another woman who too came for her kids and a man who too came with his own reasons...she could have seen how the woman bore herself calmly. And inspite of all these tears, she still keeps working to remain in competition...Amazing.  Anyways its time, Emily shed her baggage of being selfish and start looking a normal person who can empathize with others.

    Atleast Meena, is learning something in her competition...ClapClapClap

    So the Rathi Bahus are facing the test of their times...lets see how much human and original they can become away from all RP brainwashing of the NEED to WIN.
    I am just so bored to see Emily and when she comes on screen, I have to prepare myself of her sob-face. The actor playing Emily has perfected herself to enact only three expressions...the tilted look with face turned upwards and eyes looking downwards, the sob-face and elated face that has I am saved look...It just shows how poorly Emily's character is written

    For me Emily is no better than Sudha. They are badly used in the plotlines of the drama. 

    I agree with you.  Emily and Sandhya cannot be compared at all. And why should Emily give divorce to Mohit? If she stops being dumb, pretty much she can start putting Mohit in his place and have comfortable marriage.

    Emily cannot even be compared with Meena.  When Vikram stopped talking to Meena, when her truth came out, how Meena was determined to have him back. Emily for all her need to be wife and being married woman, cannot even function like Meena.  How old is Meena ?! Even she was married very young into the family.

    Its a ranty post I made. I am just so bored to see Emily on the screen. She is not even entertaining like Meena, Chavi or Chaturi. Because with Emily even Bhabho becomes BORING.  With Emily around, everyone becomes SILENT and Serious. I see the same happening to SurYA and Mohit becomes Sulky. The guy was not this sulky before. Bhabho too goes silent unlike what she is with Meena, Chavi, Chaturi and Sandhya.  Even Babasa has been motivating her...such open support for her and yet she spreads heaviness around her.  When I see this, then I feel maybe the writer purposefully is bringing on the bleak factor.  But they are missing the point that it is now becoming a drag-fest.

    Today I could barely watch the episode because of Emily...somehow the first half of the episode was all about Emily, and second part was about competition with Meena;s scene  interspersed in the episode. Meena's scene was most interesting.

    You can see how much entertained I felt about today's episode. I just felt like giving my feedback on Emily and her characterization. UnhappyDead


    Hey Mhara Ramji !!

    Look at the Fear Clunk...where it is taking us now ???? Didn't I say...Emily remains decent Insaan...itna hi kaafi hoga...Lekin NAHIN NAHIN...woh aur bhi ghinona kaam karengi...mujhe phoot phoot ke rona aa raha hai Cry CryCry


    Look at this news.  Credit goes to TM arti12345

    Originally posted by arti12345

    Hi folks,

    While surfing channels, I stopped at star gold for a movie.
    They were showing an ad tag at the bottom of screen :
    "Kya emily aur mohit ki beimaani ko jaan payegi sandhya?"
    Will Sandhya find out Emily and Mohit's cheating?

    I wonder what would be the challenge where highly demotivating mohit will join hands with the doormat emily to winOuch

    Please update if any new promo is out wrt this tagline Smile

    Hey Mhara Ramji !!!

    Why should Sandhya catch them ??? What is the Quiz show's Production doing ?? Were they bribed to turn off their monitoring and surveillance.  Suddenly Mohit and Emily got the brains to outsmart the Quiz Prod team ?? and Will Sandhya treat the Quiz stage as Rathi Aangan to save Emily another time ?  Sandhya if she saves Emily now...I will have serious doubts on Sandhya integrity towards Policegiri Duty.  Ever since Matka business, Sandhya is unable to side with Truth and unable to prove Truth, for one or the other reasons.
    Responded by Shrutiarvi
    @SD 2 things can happen. One they cheat in the competition, they can , did WTC production team catch Maiti no right. Sandhya caught. So here also they might manage to do something. See they are doing quite a lot of rounds out dooors.
    2nd possibility which has a high chance of occurence. Sandhya knows the real reason for Emily participation. The CF fiasco.  If she decides to sacrifice for Emily for this non sense then Sandhya is no IPS material. Better she sit at home and raise a good family atleast.
    Instead let us assume she tells Sooraj, Sooraj confronts Mohit, some tiff happens, Bhabo does her emotional atyachaar on Sandhya telling she is responsible for the tiff between the brothers, her sapna is the reason for trouble in family.
    This explains the contest promo " If you go behind sapna , you will lose parivaar", maybe Sooraj will side Sandhya strongly and will also allay her fears. That is why at the last part of the promo after getting confused she looks at Sooraj and then a confident Sandhya faces the host
    Responded by Myself
    Agree Shruti. I read your other reply to arti12345.  Yes the CF fiasco needs to be out.

    Seems Emily's Fear clunk will drive to some ki nd of resolution for SurYA over Bhabho's opposition and finally clear all dilemma and mess out of Sandhya's mind.

    Now I am speculating further...

    okay for leap to happen the... these things seem to be in progress
    1. Meena realizing her BS mistake by herself...
    2. Emily and Mohit's truth coming out in open
    3. Sandhya's dilemma between IPS and Parivaar sorted out

    What is left is Chavi's truth coz, she cannot be married with lie...unless Post leap, the same issues might resurface after years in the Misri looking like Meena or Chavi's secret out post her marriage...right ?