They are truly a Diya Aur Baati for each other
While Sandhya was Diya for her Baati Sooraj in WTC championship, Sooraj is the Diya for his Baati Sandhya in SBC Championship.
WTC is World's Top Cook
SBC is Sabse Bada Champion
WTC is World's Top Cook
SBC is Sabse Bada Champion
This response was spurred by Shruti's post that I read @IF. Here it is
By Shrutiarvi
Remember SURYA during WTC. Sooraj was all praise for Sandhya and Sandhya encouraging him.
Sooraj
goes on telling "wo ai ni" as he is shy to tell " ILU" and Sandhya
wondering about it. Then finally after the semi final he finally manages
to tell those 3 letters to her and she reciprocates.
We see a much stronger Sooraj for the final, a Sooraj capable of conquering the world because he knows Sandhya loves him.
Now
let us take SBC. From the time Sooraj had given the matka in Bhabo's
hand Sandhya is praising him for his support. She is telling in
multitude of ways she is happy with him and we see Sooraj just
acknowledging or smiling.After seeing the promo this is what I feel.
Sandhya
had heard Bhabo speaking to Babasa that Sooraj's status will get
affected if she becomes IPS and he will be feeling sad from inside and
will not be able to tell this to anyone. Sandhya wants to speak to
Sooraj about this, but somehow unable to and she is trying indirect ways
to convey that he is not small , she loves him, he is important to her
etc..
Can a point come before SBC final
where Sandhya will speak her mind to him. Where she will ask him society
might not be kind to them. He might be taunted. Will he be still with
her withstanding that. Will he at any point feel inadequate and decided
to end their relationship if she becomes IPS. She will tell IPS is
important to her, but it is incomplete without him. She at no point want
to lose him because of IPS.
This will make
Sooraj allay her fears, something like an educated girl like her has
respected him, she is always proud to talk about him, her friend had
given her divorce papers so that she can chase her dream, she decided
to respect the seven vows she took with him and sacrifice her dream.
When society taunted her she didnt leave him, so why should he feel
inadequate if she becomes IPS. He will always have pride for her. He
knows , her trust is what matters to him and as she is incomplete
without him, he is also incomplete without her. It can go something like
this ...
This convo can make SURYA bond stronger and the
fact that Sooraj is with her no matter what can help her cross over
Bhabo emotional atyachaar.
So what to do you
think. If the above scene happens it will be one of the most beautiful
scenes of DABH as I expect a emotional hug post this convo
Responded by myself
Sooraj is not at all getting the various hints
that Sandhya is throwing at him about his place in her life. She
considers him her greatest gift/honor and she has been saying it quite
aggressively in three separate incidents ... the TV remote scene. the
Dukaan scene where she tells him how proud her father would have been of
Sooraj and the recent Photo frame shifting and Sandhya's refusal to let
it move. Babasa's Get Free Saree from Meena contest between Sandhya
and Emily also had seen, Sandhya making a statement that with her
husband's faith and belief on her she can fetch stars from the sky too.
Even this part, Sooraj has been happy for Sandhya's confidence over
fetching stars but he is NOT taking his beliefs as THE DEAL for Sandhya.
Though Ghat scene, 2rd Matka as gaurantee and umbrella scenes are all
about his faith and his beliefs, somewhere the connect point is being
missed by Sooraj that those 3 things were exactly where Sandhya has
changed from what he knew her as. Yes definitely as the viewer I feel
the two different states of mind between husband and wife at each time
of the 6 incidents collectively...either the two actors have brought out
the nuances effectively purely as consequential results of their acting
or it could also be the fact that the actors needed to bring that
characteristic differences between the couple at each of those 6
incidents - 3 for Sandhya and 3 for Sooraj. I would rather delude
myself thinking that the latter is the true case.
Originally posted by Deebz
I did seriously get the impression that Sandhya and Suraj are one now. I wanted a more dramatic realization from Sandy's end. Something to the scale of their first hug after the accident. But Cvs have handled it more subtly but quite touchingly too. As SD put it, Sandy is emotionally connected to him now but is still quite awkward in expressing it. Bhabasa actually made it quite clear how deep their connection is and how strong is Sandy's commitment to her husband. Suraj is now totally single minded about the fulfillment of her IPS dream. Being a man, with such a beautiful wife who he is cazy about, it must have been a Herculean effort on his part to be this way. Now that he has achieved it, he is not letting anything distract him. Not even Sandy
Responded by Shruti
Shruti,
So
these repeated trials of Sandhya in hinting to Sooraj that its not just
about her dream getting fulfilled through him, but his presence in her
life as the guiding light and his support for her throughout her life is
what she is looking from him, are exactly like Sooraj's days in WTC's
days. He was under stress that he might fail and may disappoint his
family...but her stubborn support and motivation made him open up to
her. She was risking her life for him... Every time she was showing him
confidence, Sooraj would make a comeback with loving gestures...and one
of them becoming repetitive which was Wo Ai Ni. And after Sandhya's
motivation when she sees the visible change in Sooraj, as she displays
her extreme happiness in his success, it boosts Sooraj to go for a clear
cut confession on Wo Ai Ni. He speaks quite confidently how he fell in
love with her and how much he loves her and how he wants her to say it
that she too feels the same. That was such a confident request from him
and she showered it on him in all shyness and all pleasure.
So
in the same token, yes we are seeing a Sandhya wanting to convey
something to her husband...she may not have coyly teased him or
romantically been able to tell him, but there is a lot of seriousness
and impatience to convey her inner feelings to him as soon as possible.
That he is always important to her regardless of the IPS dream...But
Sooraj, just like Sandhya in WTC is unable to catch her meaning. We can
see that in all the three scenes that I cited above, Sooraj is unable to
catch her driving point behind her abrupt reactions and statements. He
is being just WOW !!, Shy or saying, So I come under the league of great
men ?!!! and just smiling about it as just a routine praise...and
that's it. He is missing her point that she is getting dependent on his
support throughout regardless of her dream/no dream.
Yes,
there is a possibility that Sandhya too can become nervous about her
and Bhabho's apprehensions and how Sooraj is not getting it...Probably
as Sandhya starts getting closer to finals, maybe he can hear people
talking about their disparity and if Sooraj does not get the rude hint,
may be Sandhya will have another reaction...and may be then they can
have another scene that shall allay her fears...and may be then Sooraj
will realize what she had been trying to tell him.
And
at that point Sooraj would also be ready to go ahead with their
emotional and physical intimacy as presently he is under the shadow of
responsibility of fulfilling his wife's parents dreams for her and so
denying himself all the pleasures of marital life. His wife has been
always slow to understand these things and he is been making her
comfortable around it. Once he puts aside the IPS dream as the most
important thing for him, and he is able to see both his Wife and IPS
dream in the same frame (unlike the last scene where he was ready to
take down the picture of himself and his wife from the wall to adorn it
with championship certificates of Sandhya Sooraj Rathi), they will
proceed to both emotional and physical intimacy. Its definitely going
to be a PROUD MOMENT once again for Sooraj in knowing that Sandhya needs
his love and support as much as he needed her love and support at the
time of WTC.
He
needs to snap out from his own need to see her win and see that she has
been living and trying to achieve his dream and not hers. He needs to
understand that she is not just appreciating him for letting her pursue
her dream, but there have been changes within her. Yes, Shruti, you are
right...it needs to dawn on him why she is making statements
now...unlike just being shy and reticent like always. He seems to be
lost in his own world of happiness treating her as his princess...but
somewhere along the lines...that she is been trying to tell that he is
the king of her heart is being missed by him.
Originally posted by Deebz
I did seriously get the impression that Sandhya and Suraj are one now. I wanted a more dramatic realization from Sandy's end. Something to the scale of their first hug after the accident. But Cvs have handled it more subtly but quite touchingly too. As SD put it, Sandy is emotionally connected to him now but is still quite awkward in expressing it. Bhabasa actually made it quite clear how deep their connection is and how strong is Sandy's commitment to her husband. Suraj is now totally single minded about the fulfillment of her IPS dream. Being a man, with such a beautiful wife who he is cazy about, it must have been a Herculean effort on his part to be this way. Now that he has achieved it, he is not letting anything distract him. Not even Sandy
How
sweet will it be when she will finally make him understand that she is
his, body and soul. All our wait will be worth it with this magical
couple. Quite frankly those who have missed watching dabh would have
missed something really really special. I hope Cvs will not let us down
here.
Responded by myself
I loved how you said it there. The whole thing. @bold and that is what we all seem to be waiting for.
Infact,
how many times, in our real lives too, we end up saying the same"I
love you's" or "I am there for you's" for different reasons and
different contexts. And that's how the relationship keeps traversing
though time and situation. Its now a new phase of life for SurYa.
Responded by Shruti
@SD thanks for analyzing my post so beautifully. You have put forth all
my thoughts in your reply. The promo gives all hints of it.
@Deebz you are right. Sandhya is hinting multiple times he is
important to her, more important than her dream, but Sooraj is unable to
catch on to that. I want her to tell it out loudly to him and throw
Bhabo out of that GG room once and for all 
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